Monday, July 27, 2009
My team mates/ brothers; Ace and Fifi. Everyone's not perfect. I have to like their bads and their virtues. I remembered when I was in year 1, I use to ostracize people who has a certain flaw such as not doing their work during team discussions.
I had to change, evolve and start to think two ways. For example, like Allen, he's ain't a workaholic, and seldom participate in group work. But, I try to find virtues to hide his weaknesses. He's a unparalleled talent in music, which awed me especially when he talks about it. His presence made me dumbfounded unlike during the days we study together.
I won't nitpick if anyone don't do their work in my team. I would try to look at different perspective of that individual, perhaps there's reason laying behind.
Ace; he's a material in editing, responsible and loyal to friends. But, one bad thing that I loathe is that he can be quite stubborn at times. I remembered one occasion about who's the leader of the team and he reacted quite strongly. I worried I would face this issue of who to be the leader of the FYP for the second semester. I would definitely vote myself, as I'm neutral and a HRM person. Verdell and Fifi sure enough go for the MV proposal while Ace towards fighting flim. That's when I come in, decide in details of the timeline, and when is when, meetings, and every details that may come in during and after production.
I'm a strict person when regard to work, friend's ties would be neglected seriously and only work is produced. Easy to get work done. Sure, joyous moods are needed but hope not leading to laziness.
Well, what to do? Everyone got their weaknesses exposed and we should embrace them.
Fifi; he knows me. His aloof aura makes him cool. Sometimes I do hope he can put more effort in the work he does. Of course, I'm just trying to be nitpick once again. I love to be a perfectionist. He's a music man and I like his passion to burn on this. People with dreams are beautiful, right? Yes he is.
Rationality : Do not make selections towards people; especially when making friends. Weaknesses is part of them, so is their virtues. Like one of the obnoxious people in our diploma, Jason, although he does not do his work, I may throw a few sarcastic comments, but I notice his efforts in going to the library and borrow a book and a cd on ActionScript 1.0. Kudos to this effort.
Age : 20
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